As a result of previous destructive criticism, people accept another myth, or self-limiting belief. It is that they don't really believe that they deserve to be successful. This deep inner feeling of undeservingness is quite common among those of us who started off with very little in life, or who came from families that had little money when we were growing up. It can also be caused nu people who told us at a young age that to be poor is virtuous but to be rich is sinful.
If you have grown up feeling undeserving of good things, for any reason, and you do achieve success in your field, you may experience what is called the "imposter syndrome." You will feel that you are an imposter in your success, and that you are going to be found out.
No matter how successful you became as the result of your hard work, you will have a nagging fear that it will all be taken from you.
If you feel like an imposter, you will often feel guilty for achieving greater success than others. To escape these feelings of guilt, many people engage in self-sabotage. They eat too much, drink too much, take dope, ignore their families, engage in unpredictable behaviours, and often throw their money away in extravagant living and unwise investments.
They feel deep down inside that they don't deserve their success. As a result, they often drive it away.
MOTIVATION
TELL YOURSELF YOU DESERVE THE VERY BEST, IT'S YOU OR NO ONE!
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